Puppy Play – A Dom’s Perspective
The Joy of Puppy Play, From the Dom’s Perspective
I’ve always been a dog person. And by that, I mean a REAL dog person.
I remember adopting my current dog. Bringing him home from the pound swaddled in a blanket. The nights spent crate training. Me, curled up next to the puppy’s crate, my fingers in through the wire mesh for him to nibble on.
So, it was initially pretty hard when my partner/sub wanted to get into puppy play. My dog is probably the closest thing I’ll ever come to having a kid. Transferring that to a sexual experience just seemed wrong on so many levels.
But then I realized something about my relationship with my dog that does transfer…and it comes from the basics of training. You see, there are two types of dogs. The first is the type of dog that, when you approach with a stick, gets excited because he thinks its time to play fetch or tug. The second is the type that cowers and growls because he thinks he’s about to be beaten.
I’m happy to say that my dog is the first type. And that’s why I have any disciplinary control over him at all. The only reason he cares what I say—the only reason I can command him off the couch—is because I’m the one that he’s always known that he can rely on for comfort and love.
In the world of fetish play, the great thing about puppy play for a sub is that it involves being subservient while still maintaining a sense of fun and play. You’re being humiliated, collared, and controlled while still having a weird sense of self.
But for the Dom, the great thing about puppy play is that the discipline gets to start from a place of love and affection—as apposed to typical slave play which starts from a place of harsh enforcement. In the fetish world of puppy play, it’s all about that first kind of dog…the one that wants to play and have fun. The human puppy who you can make balance a toy on his nose, but only because he’ll get ear scratches afterwards.
It still took a while to get over that mental leap from dog to puppy play, but the reward of adopting a human puppy is well worth the love.
And I still don’t let either on the couch.
Source: puppzz.blogspot
is really amazing and I enjoyed the fact that I could be quiet and relaxed and allow the ropesmen to work around me. I look forward to getting into more rope work, including being a ropesmen and learning the various skills required to do the art of rope. And that is what it is an art, though it is still a BDSM activity, the art of rope can be just as beautiful and sensual as any BDSM play. The enjoyment and pleasure as a sub that I bring to a Dom, by allowing him to dominate me, and to put me into a submissive head-space. The bond and trust required to allow another person to do this in itself is one of the most amazing and calming feelings. I still am yet to be suspended, and I am looking forward to the day that such an opportunity is provided to me. The feel of the rope against me skin, and the restraining power it has, to allow myself to let go, and allow the Dom to have me at his will and to follow his direction, is almost meditation for me, especially when it is all about rope play. Of course sometimes other activities may take place and other experiences and feelings are felt, yet in this instance I had the chance just to feel the energy between me, the rope and Max. Submitting and allowing a dude to use their rope art skills is beautiful, it allows the pup to rest and moves me from the pup to more the submissive boy that I also identify with. I felt at ease with Max and was willing to please him as he learned how to work with me with his rope skills. I thank both Max and Anthony for that experience.
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